Snapchat Stories and How I Stay Productive

Transcribed from the episode recorded on August 18, 2023

Hi guys, welcome to this week's episode. This week I'm going to tell some stories that all ironically happened on Snapchat, and also tell you a way that I learned how to stay more productive. Let's get right into it.

Now a little disclaimer, I am going to say that I use the first name of the people that I've had these interactions with, just so we're not mixing people up. And I am also reading them live, so it may take me a minute to fully read the entire conversation.

So the first conversation is with a guy named Nate. I don't remember if he added me from The Wizz or from someone else's story. So he had messaged me and he said, “Lemme see you”. So I sent him a live snap, and he said, “I got 400 for you if you do everything I say right now?”. I said, “Depends on what it is hahaha let's hear it”. He said, “Take a video and show off”, I said, “Like, show off what? Like in general? I need specifics hahaha. And length and everything”. He said,” I want a video of you stripping, showing off that body,” I asked, “Any particular length for the vid?”, he said, “As long as it takes to show off those holes”. I said, “Okay bet”, and sent him my Cashapp tag. So then he said, “Send it”. I told him, I said, “Payment first then content after”, he said, “If you want 400+ you listen to me”. I said, If you want content you have to pay first 💀”, and said, “I don't make or send any content unless it's the previews I have on my insta before getting my money”. After that, I guess he had opened it and didn't say anything.

So now this next one, his name is Jason. I again, don't remember where he added me from. He would snap me back and forth for a few days, I believe he would ask me some questions and I would kind of ignore them because I wasn't 100% comfortable with them. And then he had messaged me in the chat and said, “1 to 10 how mad would you be if I sent you nudes right now lmao”. I said, “I probably wouldn't acknowledge it”. He said, “Why?”, I said, “Because I see them all the time. To be honest, I'm more interested in other people buying mine than seeing theirs”. He said, “True true”, and he had ended up sending a picture of it, and he goes, “I mean, I saw you looked at it 👀👀👀”. I said, “Not really, I was trying to save the messages in the chat and think of my answer”. He goes, You don't like it then” I said, “Like I said, I don't pay attention to them”. He then proceeds to go “Look”, with like 15 O's, and I said, “Nah”, I go, “Nah”, he says, “Yes”, I said, “No”, he goes, “Yes”, I said, “Dude. I'm not going to look, I told you earlier, I ignore them”. He then goes, “Look, look, look”. I said, “Dude. I said no. I said stop, stop being an ass”. Then he goes, “Real question”, I said, “What?”, he goes, “What's a better like what's better for girls Pic or nut vids?”, and I said, “I mean if you randomly send them none, if they ask, I don't know, whatever they ask for”. He goes, “Boring”, and then I said, “You asked a question. I gave an honest answer”. So then, yesterday, apparently, I guess was his birthday. And I do a little thing for people, for my, for their birthdays. I send them a week-long free trial link to my account. So I messaged him and I was like, “Oh, happy birthday”. So he said, “Thanks, baby. Did you get me anything?”. I said, “Hmmm, you get a free trial link - or a free week trial - to my paid OnlyFans”. He goes, “It's my birthday. At least rate my dick for my birthday”. I said, “Hey, I never give out free trials. If you don't want it, that's fine”. He goes, “Wow, it's my birthday”. I said, “Yeah, and I'm giving you a free trial as a gift. Didn't anyone ever tell you not to be greedy or picky when it comes to gifts?”. So on my story, I posted a thing where I said, “If in the last two weeks, I missed your birthday, let me know I have a gift for you”. And he slid up, and he goes, “Me”, I said, “That was the gift”, and I ended up sending him the link for it. So he then says, “That's terrible”. I said, “You get to see naked pictures of me for free”. He goes, “Then just send it lol”. I said, “Use the link. There's too much to send, stop being picky or I'll take it back”, to which I had deleted it. He's like, “I have to make an account 🙄”. And I just said, “Okay”, and we have not interacted since then.

So a little backstory on the next one. So I believe the guy his name was Saif, I'm not exactly sure how to pronounce it. I know for a fact he added me from Wizz. So he had ended up adding me, and it always takes me a while to add people back. So on there, he had texted me and he was like, “Yo, like, go add me back”. I said, “Yo like you got chill like, you got wait”. So I eventually added him back, and this was a few weeks ago. So I've been dealing with this one for a few weeks. And the first thing he said to me was like, “Oh, like it took you a while”, whatever. So I just kind of ignored that, and he would say stuff, and I'd kind of, you know, ignore what he says. if it's something that I don't want to talk about, I'll just kind of ignore it. And he constantly, constantly, constantly kept asking, “What content are you making? When are you putting out content”, stuff like that. To which I would tell him, “Oh, like I'm working on it soon”, or whatever. So the other day, we were having this conversation, and he had asked me the same thing. I said, “Oh, like you just got to wait like everyone else”. And he pretty much was like, “Well, I'm not like everyone else”, and I told him, you know, “Hey, get off your high horse. Like, to me, you are just like everybody else”, Whatever, whatever. And he had messaged me back and was like, “Oh, like you don't need to be so rude”. Like, pretty much like being like, “I'm not like everyone else, but you think that”, like, and then tried to insult me by saying like, “Oh, you sell your pussy for £2”, like, whatever, whatever. And I ended up messaging him back and I was like, “First off, I am not the one being rude, you are”. I said, “The very first day you added me, you've been rude to me since. I gave you the benefit of the doubt, thinking maybe you were having a bad day” whatever, whatever. Pretty much told him I'm not dealing with you anymore. So I ended up posting this on my story. So I am going to very quickly just go and get that and read to you guys what I posted on my story.

So on my story, I had ended up saying, “Just a little PSA because someone thought they were ‘entitled’ ever since adding me: I do not favor anyone on my snap. Everyone here is equal. I'm not going to share one thing with someone, like upcoming content without sharing it with everyone else. That wouldn't be considered fair. That's the equivalent of saying I brought cookies to work and only sharing them with one person, which I don't do”. I said, “Since the day he added me, he acted all high and mighty, claiming or complaining that I didn't add him back immediately. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and thought maybe he was having a bad day. Then he would constantly ask what content I was working on or when I was posting. He told me I can tell him and he isn't like everyone else. When I told him he'd have to wait like everyone else, he got butthurt and tried to insult me by saying that I sell my ‘p’ for £2. It's not insulting F.Y.I, it's my job. I told him all this and told him that I wasn't dealing with him anymore. I removed him from everything. Only time people get info on content beforehand is if they purchase a bundle that includes a preview, like the girlfriend experience. I will post about when I'm posting content or what it is or when I choose to. No one else is more important than anyone else”. And then right after that, I had posted another story based off of another person.

So this was a very, very short conversation. This person added me off of Wizz. Their name, I believe it's pronounced Lay-comb (Lakolm), but I'm not sure. So they messaged me after I had added them after, like maybe a few hours. And they said, “Hey took you a while to add me back :/”, and I said,” I take a while adding back everyone or adding everyone back, I'm also super busy”. He says, “Okay, bye”, and unadded me. And I was like,” Oh, like I'm so sorry that I have a life”. So on my story I had posted, I said, “On top of that”, to the previous story, “Don't get pissed and childish that I don't add back or answer immediately. I have an insanely busy life outside of my content. That really shows who doesn't have patience and pisses me off. I'm sorry I'm not glued to my snap or my phone 24/7. I got quite a few people on here who can vouch for that. All I ask is that you wait patiently for me to add back or answer and treat me with respect and I'll be the nicest person ever to you”. Three of the people that I, pretty much were like, oh, these people vouch for me, had slid up and even agreed. They were like, “Yeah, like it takes you a while, but like, that's okay”. And I pretty much, I tell people all the time, if you're nice to me, I will be nice to you. If you're rude to me, I will return that. However you treat me, I will treat you.

As I had mentioned in that story, I have a very busy life outside of content. I run and manage both my content accounts, I am currently a student, and I also have a Reddit page that I run, along with my podcast, along with boosting my pages on social media, and texting on apps. So I have a lot on my plate. I was getting very stressed out, trying to figure out how to manage my time and not get burnt out between all of this stuff. So what I ended up doing is getting Google Calendar, which I absolutely love, because you can add an event and you can change the color of the event. You can do reminders, tasks, whatever. So I ended up downloading that and transferred all of this stuff from my regular, you know, Apple calendar onto there and color-coded stuff. So, I put in every single day that, you know, I marked them as all day for every single thing I put in for, you know, content/socials. And I have added those events, and then I add tasks for the to-do list on each week, this is what I'm going to do. So I have them, I believe, every single day of the week. Once I finish it, I just kind of check it off and, you know, mark it as complete. I also have all of my school stuff on there, I have when the first day of class is, when certain stuff is due, and I have all of this color-coded. So my regular event which is my content with socials is blue. The tasks is a purple color. Anything like the first day of classes, which is a reminder, I have as a bright reddish pink. And then depending on my class, if it's science, I have it marked as a green event, and if it is my math class, I have an orange event for it. And I really like it because I have all of my stuff in one place. So, not only do I go ahead and do that, when I make the event, I make sure - or the reminder, whatever - that it is set for all day. And then I hit repeat and make it weekly so that I don't have to constantly input all of that stuff every single week. So, now the one other thing that I find really helpful is on my content pages on OnlyFans. I love using the schedule button, I use it for scheduling my lives, scheduling mass messages, posts, whatever, and I already have some scheduled up until the 21st I believe. And I'll schedule a mass message for the day, I will schedule a, you know, a live and I'll schedule, you know, whatever I am posting. And it actually has really helped me out quite a lot, because that way, if I have something filmed that I know I'm going to want to post soon, I schedule it as soon as it's done, I upload the pictures and then I just hit schedule. Right now I actually had a mass message on my free account, I believe - oh no, it was on paid my account, sorry - that was already supposed to go out and it didn't send. So, I went on there and I just hit, you know, send now instead, which I honestly, I think that is probably the most helpful thing is, making the stuff beforehand unless it is like custom content, and then scheduling it. So what I typically do, I will just tell you what for every day of the week, what my stuff is. So on Sundays, I go live and I send out a mass message asking what content people want to see for me that week. On Monday, I do Super Live, which is just an app that I use where I go live. And then on my free account, I post an outfit check, and on the paid account I do like an underwear check. On Tuesdays, I go live. On Wednesdays, I do custom content requests. I just ask people, “Hey, what do you want to see from me? You know, I'm doing requests right now. Like, what do you want?”, so I can film it and send it to them. Thursdays are always super busy day for me because I have stuff to do for my class. And then I also film and edit my boy/girl content. I go live, and then I post a poll or a quiz. Fridays are also super busy, because I have stuff to do for both my classes. I do my buyers list top three on Snap, I post the boy/girl content, and then I record and post my podcast. And then Saturdays I film, edit and post my own personal content. So I have stuff for every single day of the week, whether it's being posted on my free account or my paid account. When I do the boy/girl content, I post the full video on my - or not the full video, but I post a little video snippet - on the paid account, and then I post just a little screengrab of it on the free account. And I also send out a mass message, but on the free account, the picture and then the video, the whole video, locked and send that as a mass message. And then on the paid account, I send the little snippet that I have, and I send that with again, the full video locked in a mass message. So I actually do mass messages quite, quite frequently, whether it's doing share for share, with someone or me just sending one out like, “Hey, sorry, you know, I was supposed to go live and I didn't”. Or “Hey, like I have a live coming up”. A lot of the messages I send will be mass messages. Same with contests, I'll put the link for every single one, “Hey, vote, you know, B, vote five, vote D”, whatever, whatever, and send that is a mass message. And it is so much easier now since I can schedule everything.