What I Did This Week

Transcribed from the episode recorded on August 14, 2023

Hi everyone, welcome to this week's episode. This week, we're going to talk about some stories that I have from this week and just some stuff that I've done this week. So let's get right into it.

So the first thing I'm going to talk about is this contest I was part of on OnlyFans. It was called the “Black or black and white contest”, where I had to send in a picture, wearing either black or black and white, and other creators or users got to vote on which they thought was the best and then get added into a bracket against other creators. So far, with the person I am up against, I am in first place and I assume I find out tonight who I am up against in the next contest.

So, now I have a Snapchat that I use just for selling my content, and I had this one person who was a potential buyer who wanted to buy my used items - I will word it that way - and I told them how much it would be. I said, “As soon as you send me the money, I can go ahead and get that all set up for you”. Well, then they said that they also wanted to send their videos to me and that I could send mine to them, and I did tell them that “I'm not really comfortable with that unless you send me a certain amount of money and then I'll be okay with it”. And I let them know that it won't be stuff that I'm making just for them because that is a completely separate cost. I let them know that that is stuff that is already in my camera roll, and they said, “Okay, yeah, that's fine”. So I was waiting for them to send money for about two weeks, and every single day I would say, “Hey, I need you to send this money so I can get started on this for you because this is this is a pretty hefty price. This is a pretty, you know, big thing that you want. Like, I'm not going to start it unless you send me the money”, and they wanted me to do a verification. So I said, “Yeah, what do you want me to do”? And it at first was to send them a video of me saying like, “Oh, like, are you excited for this”? Which I had done, and then they said, “Oh, well, can you do this instead for the verification?”, and they wanted me to pretty much make content for them, but they wanted me to send it to them for free. And I said, “You know what? Like, I understand why you want this as verification, whatever”. So I did it and it wasn't very long, and then they were like, “Oh, well, can you add noise into it? Like, can you like make sounds”? And I was like, “Well, normally, you know, I typically don't when it’s stuff like that”. I was like,” But yeah, let me do that”. So I had done that, and then they were getting really greedy. And they were like, “Oh, well, can you make it a minute long and, like, you know, still make noise”? I was like, “All right. Yeah”. And after I'd sent that in a snap, they were like, “Oh, can you make it so, like, it can be saved in the chat”? And I told them, “Unfortunately, no”. I was like, I pretty much went out and told them, “I am making stuff for you, wasting my time and money that I could be making, just by doing this for you”. I was like, “Yes, I know that you said you would pay extra for this stuff, but that is stuff that I've already previously made”. I pretty much told them, “You need to send me all the money for this stuff now, or you're not going to get anything”. And they pretty much tried fighting with me saying, “Oh, I will as soon as you do that”. I told them, I've already done verification for you at least, you know, 2-3 times like, that should be simple enough at this point. You just want it for pleasure”. So I told them, “Unfortunately, I'm not going to do this anymore. I've been trying to get you to send money to me for two weeks. I'm not dealing with that anymore”. And then they opened the message, they didn't even say anything since. So in the end, it was okay that I didn't make the money that I initially was going to make because I feel like they weren't really going to send the money, and they just wanted to see if I would actually send them that stuff for free.

So on my Snapchat, I also will occasionally do a contest, and whoever gets the question correct, or wins the contest or whatever, I typically send them a part of my menu and they get to choose whatever they want off of that section for free. So, the contest that I did this week was I posted a picture in bra and underwear, put it in black and white, and let the people guess what two colors, or what colors I was wearing. A good majority of the people got it within the first three, and a lot of people chose the exact same stuff. But I also had some people who did not even get it, but I was okay with it - that I wasn't making money - because a few of the people actually ended up wanting to see the whole menu, see the rest of the menu, and wanted to buy stuff. I love doing contests on my snap because it gets a lot of people to interact with me, and it really gets a lot of people to kind of get a preview and a freebie of what I am selling.

So with that contest, I did have someone who won, and, you know, guessed a question right, and I had sent them the content and let them know - like I let everyone know - that they can save what I sent to them in the chat, because I save everything in the chat, but they were not allowed to save it to their camera roll, post it anywhere, save it in my eyes only, whatever. And I always let everyone know it is just for privacy and safety reasons, I don't need my stuff ending up on some other website and not getting essentially paid for it, or even knowing about it. And the person agreed, so I sent it to them and then I did not check my snap immediately. I think I waited maybe half an hour or so because I had some other stuff I had to do. I noticed that they had saved the video and I started texting them, I was like, “Hey, like I asked you not to. Like, I asked you for a very specific reason. It's not that hard to”. Now, other people I would forget to tell them, and as soon as I told them, they were like, “Oh, hey, yeah, no problem. Sorry, let me go delete that”. And they'd send me a picture of their camera roll, their hidden album, whatever, just to show me that they did. And so I had told the guy, I'm like, “I asked you not to save that. There's a very specific reason why whatever, whatever, whatever.” And as soon as he saw that message, I don't even know if he said anything, I sent that message and then went and did other stuff. And when I went back to look, I had seen his name wasn't even in my chat. He wasn't even like, in my friends list anymore. And it's not he had even unadded me, if he had unadded me, I would have seen the little “X” next to his name. So he had essentially blocked me, which I decided, “You know what if they do end up saving it even after I tell them not to, all my stuff is watermarked. Like there's really no big deal, exactly if they do, I personally just don't like when people save my stuff”. One person had asked, you know, “Why do you not want us to save it?” or said something like, “I don't want to have to scroll all the way through the chat”. I let them know, “The reason why I have you just save it in the chat is so that you can just click on my name, and it'll be right there under the media area”. So, I didn't really understand exactly why he had just blocked me after that. In the end, though, I was like, “You know what? It's whatever, because I don't even think you could see my face in it, which is completely fine”. But I was honestly really just upset that the person couldn't even follow, you know, a simple direction, or not even a direction, just a simple request, asking them not to.

So as well as selling on Snapchat, I also do sell on Instagram, and I had someone add me, and you know, they said “Hi”, and I said, you know, “Hi”. And they said, you know, “How are you?”, told them I was good, asked where I was from, and then they were like, “Oh, you know, you're hot, let’s sex”. So I thought maybe they mistyped and said, you know, really meant sext. And I sent them the menu and I let them know, you know, “Let me send this to you”. I said, you know, “It's the sexting menu is, you know, it's based off of per week with the money, if you only want it like a day or two, whatever, I can lower it”. And they said, “You're a professional bitch, wow, I like it!” And then they said, “What about, you know, real sex?”, and I said, “Well, I don't offer actual sex. I offer sexting over text or, you know, a phone call or video call”. And they were like, “Oh, well why?” and I said, “Because one, I don't meet up with people, you know, two that's dangerous. Three that's technically considered prostitution”. And they were like, “No, like you misunderstood. You'll be my girlfriend. I'll give you the money as pocket money. And we spend that time together”. And I was like, “No, I think you misunderstood. I don't hang out with people. I will not be your girlfriend. I have an option from what I sell, where it's very similar to being a girlfriend, which is my girlfriend experience”. I said, “But it's all over text”, I said, “The only time spent together is from texting, and the only money I will be getting is from you buying my stuff”. And they were like, “Oh, okay, well, bye”. And I was just so… appalled, I guess, because I was like, “You know what? Like, this is so weird. Like, who messages someone asking if they offer in-person sex”? I know some people do, but I was like, “This is just right off the bat like, the first thing you're going to ask is, is this what you offer”? And I even sent him every single menu I have, and nowhere on there does it say that I do meetups. So I… I don't know. I am still trying to, you know, get over that. Like, that is so weird. That actually happened the other day, that happened on Friday I'm pretty sure, happened like Thursday or Friday. I was, I don't know, like, I'm still trying to recover from that.

So now, I have been dealing with someone on Instagram ever since I essentially made my account, who wanted to video chat. And so once I made the menu for it, I let him know like, “Hey, this is how much it is. This is the minimum amount of time that we can do the call for” or whatever. And every single day he would text me and say, “Are you available? Are you available? Are you available?” I let him know, I was like, “I am only available between, you know, these times”. I said, “You have to message me at least, you know, maybe a half an hour before I'm available, so I can let you know if I actually am available, or if I'm not that day, because every single day for me is different”. And he was doing this for a while, and then he also added me on Snapchat. And again, same thing every single day. He asked, and every single day I would be like, “Not until this time”’ or “Not today, like I'm too busy”. Whatever, whatever. And then at one point, I pretty much told him I was like, “I told you multiple times, it is only available between this time and this time”. I was like, “You need to ask me even in that time period if I am available”. And he pretty much was like,” Oh, well, I work during those times”. And I was like, “Okay, well, II offer them”, I was like, “The last request can be made at this time”. I was like, “If I'm on a call at this time, I will keep that call going, whatever”. I said, “I will take money through Cashapp and PayPal”. And he was like, “Oh, well, I'm banned off of those. I can only send money in the form of Amazon gift cards”. And I pretty much told him, “Unfortunately, you know, I cannot accept those, Amazon gift cards are not something I can accept. I can only accept stuff from a third-party app”. I was like, “Do you happen to have a Venmo?” And he was like, “Well, I can make one”. And at this point, I was also pretty much deciding I'm not going to do any business with him from this point on. Because if he's going to message me every single day and ask when he knows that I'm not available, and if he's not going to offer to actually, you know, pay with a third-party app, that I'm just not going to deal with it. And I've had my Instagram, I want to say, for about two months or so. And that snap I've had for, I want to say three weeks to a month. So every single day for like a month, he has been messaging me and asking me. And I pretty much am just biting the ball and telling him, “Hey, unfortunately, like, I can't do this for you, whatever, whatever”. And at this point, too, I am pretty much just going to tell people like, “Hey, if you're not going to buy this, I am not going to deal with you”, and they're just going to have to deal with it and find that someone else that will.

So, I had someone add me on Instagram from Wizz and they pretty much said they don't really use OnlyFans, but they wanted to know if I just straight up sold pics, and I told them I do, sent them the menu, and they, you know, asked a few questions like, “Oh, what would this be? What's this? Why is you know, this in a bundle a little more expensive”? I explained, you know, “This is what it is in the bundle, and it's priced different because it is more stuff takes a little longer to film”, and you know, again asked a few like, “What's the difference between this and this?” and they were like, “How would I pay?” because they only have Zelle and Apple Pay, so I ended up telling them, “Hey, I will give you my number so you can use it for Apple Pay, and you can just buy content from my number, just text me. But do not constantly text me, only do it if you want something”. I told them I was like, ”I couldn't get my Zelle set up just because of the cards I have, it wouldn't work”. And then he asked like, “Oh, like, do you squirt?”, I said no. He was like, “Okay. I just wanted to know, like”, if I could possibly do something similar to a video he sent me and I was like, “I do”. I was like, “Just a heads up, you know, I also, you know, I do offer custom”. I was like, “If you wanted something off the menu, that was similar to that, those prices are typically a little higher, that if you wanted something that wasn't even on the menu, those prices are insanely high”. And he was like,” I do want to see a little bit more of you though, you know, not just that”, and I said, “Well, what else?”. And he was like, “Oh, you know, just a little bit of titty”, and he was like, you know, “I can wait a little bit for you to, you know, do all that stuff before, you know, whatever”. He's like, “I can wait to send you the money until, like, you're going to make it”, and I was like, “I can definitely do that”, I was like “Customizing some stuff, you know, is an extra $5 charge”, I was like, “But with that, it's not, because it's bound to happen anyways”. I was like, “I'll let you know when I'm good and then, you know, you can go ahead and I’ll film that.” He was like,” How long do you think it'll take to make?”, I said, “Probably, you know, just about a minute”. He was like, he wants something a little longer. He asked how much $15 would be, I said, “So the initial one is $12, which is for a minute”. So I said, “$15 would probably get you about a minute and a half”, and he was like, “Okay, like, yeah, cool”, and I was like, “Hey, like you should get it by this time. If not, just send me a text whatever”. So I sent it to him, got it all set. And I do have to answer him, but he was like, “Oh, I was wondering if you could do it with like a little, like noise, like, I will send you extra money”. I did let him know, like “I am typically not very loud like when I make my content, but I can definitely do that”. So I just have to let him know like, yes, I can do that. And another thing he'd ask is like, “Do you have any, like behind the scenes content, like to show how you set up for filming?”, I told him I was like, “I have a get ready with me on my TikTok, but as of right now, no. Like I don't have any behind the scenes like how I do stuff”, but that actually didn't go too bad, it took like maybe about two minutes to get everything done because I just had to film it and send it to him after he had paid me to film it. You know, I always film myself ahead of time, do that, and then get his payment and then send it. And now I just have to let him know that I can do the other stuff too, and I will be set.

On OnlyFans I had someone message me wanting some content and they wanted stuff on the menu, but they did want it a little bit customized. So, you know, they asked, “Oh, like can I see the menu again?”, and then they were like, “Oh, well, I want to buy a nude picture with your face in it, a nude video and, you know, one minute video with face”. So I was like, “Okay, like, what's the one-minute video? Is that the nude video that you want, or is it one of the one-minute video options?”. I let them know, I said, “With face, it does cost an extra fee since it's not a part of the content, which is $5”. I said, “You also get to choose which body part you want for the picture and video”. They said “The one-minute video is that from the other option” - so from my one-minute video options - “Could you do it so I see you and your body first, and then you play with yourself afterward. And I want a naked picture of the front, and the video’s you take your clothes off”. So I confirmed. I was like, “Okay, so one, which option do you want out of the three that are offered? So two, you just want a front-view picture. And three, the videos are typically just me already naked, so taking my clothes off again is an extra five. So the total that would be…”, And now, I said the pricing wrong, which I did explain later on, I let them know what the total would be, but it was the wrong price. So e said, “Oh, I want his one”, he said” Yes, just the front view with your face”. And he said, “And if you're already naked, then why not just do that?”. So I said, “You know, I just wanted to clarify that just because”’ I said, “I just wanted to let you know, because I know you wanted the clothes to be, the video, to be me, take my clothes off where I typically already do it naked”. I said, “And just a reminder that my face is $5 in the video and the picture. So if you don't want the vid with me undressing, it's (price) total. I said, “If you want it with me undressing, it's (price)”. I told him, “Sorry I mistyped earlier”, so I said “It'd be (price) for the naked picture, plus $5 for my face being in it, which would be (price), (price) for the one-minute video and then (price) plus the $5 with me undressing, which would be (total price). He said, “Deal”, I said, “Awesome, so all you have to do is send the money and I can get that done for you”. He said, “So I tip you the (total price) now?”, I said, “Yep. So you send the money now and within the next few hours you will receive it”. So I always typically film my content in the morning. If I see someone wants something, I will film it in the morning. That way they don't have to wait and wait to receive it. And a lot of the stuff that I film for someone, other people are going to want so they can instantly send me the money and within the next few minutes, depending on what it is, get the money. So I let him know, I was like, “You know, I have all that stuff ready for you. Like I'm just waiting for you to send the tip”. And this is between, like a few, like, days. And he said, “Okay”, and then, like, that night, I was like, “Hi, love. Like, I'm just messaging you to let you know that you have until, you know, this time, on this day, to send the money. Otherwise I will be selling it to other people”. And he read the message, he said nothing at all. So that day that I told him he had to send it by, by that time, I messaged him and I said, “Unfortunately I did have to sell the custom content to others since you did not pay by the specified time”. I said, “Due to that you will not be able to purchase custom content for a week ending on this day”. I said, “You can still view all the content posted until then, but we will not be able to purchase any of the paid content or requests”. So I had gone on Reddit and asked some people and a lot of people were like, “You should never film content beforehand”. And I let them know I do that because I am super busy during the day. I'm doing a whole bunch of other stuff and a lot of the time I will just film a whole bunch of stuff in the morning, and I ended up sending the content in a paid message, I ended up making it (half total price), explained what was in it, and just sent that as a mass message to everyone on both my accounts. And I pretty much was like, “You know what? Like, I will still continue to film stuff as much as I want and I will not send it to them until they pay for it”, and someone had mentioned they were like, “The reason”, they were like, “He pretty much probably only wanted to see if you would film the content and pretty much do as he said”, and I was like, “That is very possible”. So, I am pretty sure that he unsubscribed from both my accounts, which, you know, is nothing for me because my account was $5. I would have been missing out on $5, but I really wouldn't have, because I have people constantly sending me money. But I was just kind of upset at that point because he's also texted me before saying like, “Oh, I want this”, and then wouldn't specifically tell me what, and anything that I sent as a mass message that had to be unlocked, he would look at it and he wouldn't even buy it or anything. Because someone was like, “Why don't you just send it like as a paid message?”, and I said, “Because I know like he wouldn't buy it anyways”. So I ended up just telling him, “Hey, I'm sorry, we're not going to be able to do this. And you can still look at my stuff, but you're not going to be able to buy it”. And I'm pretty sure after he saw that he had unsubscribed, which again, not even an issue for me.

This week, I also filmed content for my pages with my content partner, and I'm in the process of editing them. It is taking a while, because we ended up doing something different. We ended up filming on one phone and then using a different phone for audio. And trying to get everything to match up is super tricky, because I had to trim the video and trim the audio as well, so now I'm just trying to get them to match up. But hopefully, I will be getting it done later today or tomorrow, and then I can post it and make some more money. Aside from that, I just did some other requests that people had, I'm currently doing my Girl-Friend Experience with someone, and other than that I am just promoting, and promoting, and promoting, getting ready for school, and also taking care of the house. So I want to thank you guys so much for listening to this episode, and there will be another one out next week.